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Seeking real life sex. (group, couple, male, female, intersexed)

I am a closet cross dresser who should probably make the MTF transition but who for now, just wants to have a go at it and get my brains screwed out.
I am 49, very slender with a 28 inche waist and a hieght of 5 feet 9 inches, and look 35 to 40 according to most poeple (I usualy have to show my drivers license to prove I am actually 49 due to their disbelief). My straight hair falls about 8 inches past my shoulder and is dyed black. My eyes are hazel, and one is slightly more green while the other is slightly more blue.
I have not developed natural breasts nor have had any cosmetic surgeries and while I do not have a particularly deep voice at all I could use more practice imitating a female voice.
I am a lover of dark and spooky things and while I would be lying if I said I have not darkened the door of a few goth clubs or listen to at least some goth music I do not identify as a true goth and there are subtle differences in the way I dress an actual goth should be able to discern. I am in truth more of a metal head on the more gothic side of that spectrum.
Politicaly and socialy I am a progressive, but easly get along with those of a different persuation and do not think less of anyone for not agreeing with my views. Nazi's and bigots however, I am unlikely to get along with and need not respond.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageGerman
Height175 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBlack
Hair LengthVery long
Facial HairShaved
Best featureLegs
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Visible tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleManufacturing Machine Op. (Not my educationed pos)

Looking For

I prefer:Oddities, Flirtatiousness
My perfect matchI am very open minded, but this greatly depends on whether it is for a romantic relationship, just for fun, or just for sex.
Either way I am open for men, a genetic female, couples, groups, or an intersexed person. In fact for a person born with both male and female body parts I would likely come crawling on my hands and knees with a rose between my teeth however; a CD or TG is simply far to much like myself, like a sister, and while I am certainly open to new friends it would not ever be romantic on any level.
Must be accepting of the dark, spooky and macabre esthetics and interests (my idea of a romantic evening is not watching the sunset on a beach, but rather watching the full moon in a graveyard)
Must not be xenophobic.
Must be supportive of the working class.
Apart from that you can be anything really, I refuse to seek perfection that simply does not exist as we are all human.
I want someone who is, as they really are at the expense of any preconceived ideals I have formed in my head.
Our first dateThat depends on the purpose of the date really, for instance if it's just to see if we are compatible and then decide how we want to proceed then perhaps a nice night time walk someplace mysterious and a bit odd so we talk. If it's for courtship to see if we are right for a monogamous ltr, then maybe a nice dinner followed by the aforementioned walk. If it's just for sex, a church or a graveyard for a public place, for something more private, surprise me and screw my brains out and when I can't take anymore and beg you to stop, do it harder. (if we date, you have consent to touch and have sex with me so yes, you need not ask and really can surprise me)